10 Things to Know about Rules before Breaking Them
The latest “rule” about the “new economy” and the “new job market” (or, rather, on how to take advantage of the economic downturn by becoming an entrepreneur) seems to be: “get ahead by breaking the rules”.
I’ve always found that advice to be a bit suspect or a bit too “convenient”, overshadowing the role that luck and selective memories often play.
Of course, that’s not to suggest that we don’t benefit from the “learning opportunity” of missteps, whether due to breaking the rules or not. However, when it comes to rules, sometimes the “learning” is that some rules aren’t meant to be broken in a willy-nilly way.
Now, you probably don’t really need my advice on this. There are lots of books on this topic, for example: “Outliers” by Malcolm Gladwell; “Ignore Everybody” by Hugh MacLeod; “What Got You Here Won’t Get You There” by Marshall Goldsmith and Mark Reiter. I’m not shooting down any of these authors or their books. I actually have all three of those books on my book shelf.
Actually, I probably don’t even need to write a whole blog post about this, especially since I could pretty much consolidate my main point into 140 characters as I did on Twitter here:
Yet, if I were to elaborate a bit, I’d suggest that maybe there should be some rules, or at least guidelines, on what to know about rules before breaking them. If such rules on “how to break the rules” were to exist, here’s what I think they might include:
- Know what rules exist, both explicitly and implicitly, in your realm of operation before trying to change things. Don’t assume rules do or don’t exist as you imagine them.
- Know why certain rules exist. “It’s always been done that way” shouldn’t always be blindly accepted, but may not be without merit either. Investigate.
- Know who created the rules, when, and for what intended purpose.
- Know if the right rules were created and if they are meeting their intended purpose.
- Know when to push the boundaries and when to respect them. Don’t naively mess with strong forces like Mother Nature.
- Know when “the times” have outgrown previously necessary/useful rules. Rules seem to have pseudo- unwritten expiration dates. Know when they are fresh and need to be respected. Know when their time is about up or overdue.
- Know if rules are being appropriately applied. When the context, situation, and players change, do the rules need to change, too?
- Know if existing rules are being respected and consistently enforced. If not, find out why before taking action on it.
- Know if old rules need to be tweaked, tossed, or replaced by new rules. Chaos and anarchy isn’t always the best and only counter rule.
- Know if the rules are hindering, hampering, or hurting more than they are helping. Are they hampering creativity, productivity, efficiency, and flexibility? Creativity, innovation, or uniqueness are key differentiators.
In general, whether we like them or not, rules do serve a purpose. They maintain order. At the same time, rules aren’t always perfect; some are good, others are not so good (and there exists a full range of possibilities in between).
For example, consider basic road traffic rules. They basically work (e.g., what side of the road to drive on; what signs and symbols represent; etc.)
Other rules are more subjective (e.g., company cultures, dress codes, ethics), but are still necessary to create guidelines of behavior, fairness, and civility.
There is also that much quoted phrase that goes something like this: “It’s better to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission.” But as I began this post, I’ll reiterate the point about our selective memories; let me know if that blanket statement about “asking for forgiveness” has never bit anyone in the behind before either.
What do you think? How easy is it to succeed at “breaking the rules”?









